The Pendulum I would buildConfession: I'm not handy with tools. I couldn't possibly build the device I describe here. But maybe somebody could, or might at least incorporate some of these ideas.

1. The device is built on two platforms which both hang from an axle. The lower platform, below the axle, is for equipment. The upper platform, above the axle, is for an adustable counterweight. Ideally the lower platform should be as close to the axis as possible, which will reduce the mass of the counterweight (since the mass of the entire apparatus should be minimized).
The counterweight allows you to adjust the position of the center-of-gravity of the device. Ideally it should be just slightly below the axle. The closer to the axle it is, the less force is required to move the pendulum.
The major part of the pendulum is a triangular lattice, with the test article at the lower point of the triangle. The triangle should be easily capable of transmitting thrust force from the test article to the equipment platform with no strain deformation. The longer the distance from axle to test article, the greater the leverage the test article has to rotate the pendulum, and the smaller the force that can be measured.
2. AC electrical power is delivered to the rotating platform via three brushes on the axle (positive, neutral, ground). This powers the coolant pump and the RF source, and optionally any controlling or measuring device, such as a Raspberry Pi.
Here I assume that we're using a real, honest-to-god tunable RF source from a ham radio outlet or something similar. In that case, run a standard antenna coax from the transmitter to the antenna inside the test article. If you're using a magnetron I doubt you could get a coax waveguide to to work (but I've been wrong before). In that case, your best bet is probably a copper tube waveguide of appropriate resonant diameter.
3. The big bugaboo in the field so far is the possibility of thermal effects overwhelming any thrust. It is clear from various simulations that most of the energy in the frustum resonates in the narrow end. This implies that the narrow end heats more during operation, which would mean that the air around the narrow end becomes hotter and less dense. Then greater air pressure on the big endplate moves the frustum toward the narrow end, and hey! you've got thrust! (NOT!)
To avoid this issue, I would do two things. First, I would cool the test article with a glycol coolant loop. Cold glycol from the radiator would be routed around the narrow end (first) so that the narrow end cools the most. The loop then winds around the test article to the large end and returns to the pump and radiator, which ride on the equipment platform. Ideally, if you're putting 100W of RF into the test article, you want something close to 100W of heat coming out through the radiator.
Second, I would enclose the test article in a convection box (which is really an anti-convection box). The idea is that if any air currents do occur from heating of the test article, they would be trapped in the box and produce no net thrust. The box can be made of anything, although for best results it should be made air-tight. The box would need three pass-throughs: coolant in, coolant out, and RF in. All three should be as close to the middle of the box as possible.
And if you're making it air-tight anyway, there's certainly no reason you couldn't draw a vacuum in the box too. (That requires two more passthroughs, for valves.) Even a partial vacuum would go a long way to reducing convection effects -- and reducing criticism from Dr. Rodal ;) If you're doing a vacuum convection box, a coolant loop may not really be needed, although the test article would get hot in there. So you may want a heat-sink instead.
4. Measurement of thrust (if any) is done by means of a laser pointer on the ground and a mirror (M1) attatched to the underside of the equipment platform. (Naturally, a first-surface mirror should be used.) The laser is pointed directly upward so that its initial beam (R0) hits M1. As the pendulum rotates through an angle φ, the beam reflected from M1 (which we call the R1 beam) returns to the ground at angle 2φ. At this point, you can either measure the position of R1 and compute the angle; or, alternatively, you can arrange a second mirror (M2) on the ground to intercept R1 and return it back to M1 on the platform. This beam, R2, reflects off M2 at angle 2φ, goes back up to M1, reflects off M1 a second time and returns to the ground at angle 4φ.
5. The torque τ on any pendulum varies according to its mass m, length L from center of gravity to center of rotation, angle of rotation from vertical φ, and gravitational acceleration g. So:
τ = -m g L sin(φ)
Because the test article is firmly attached to the pendulum at distance L' from the center of rotation, it produces a torque τ'.
τ' = T L'
where T is the trust produced by the test article. When the device is turned on, the thrust produced by the test article is leveraged into torque and rotates the pendulum through angle φ until τ + τ' = 0 and the two torques balance. So the thrust produced is
T = m g L sin(φ) / L'
Since m, g, L, and L' are known at the time of construction, it only remains to measure angle φ.
6. The uncertainty of the measurement produced depends on many details of construction, but we can make some ballpark assumptions: start with mass of 10 kg, distance L of .01 m (thanks, counterweight!) and distance L' of 1 meter. Then, assume we're using M2 for double reflection, and that a laser pointer spot can be determined to the nearest 1 mm. Assume the final reflected beam travels 1.5 meters at angle 4φ where it is measured 1 mm from its initial position. Then 4φ = atan(1/1500) = .038 degrees, and φ = .0095 degrees; sin(φ) = 1.67e-4; and the smallest measurable thrust is
T = 10 * 9.8 * .01 * 1.67e-4 / 1 = 163 μN
Although this seems fully adequate, it could be improved by making the apparatus lighter, or by lengthening the lever arm of the test article (L' gets bigger), or by moving the center of gravity closer to the center of rotation (L gets smaller). It might also be improved by throwing the laser a longer distance before measuring (though of course the spot gets fuzzier).
Comments and suggestions are welcome.