lol Chris! Am I wrong in believing your thinking is changing? 
In contrast to Apollo, there is the example of ISS. Would ISS have happened were it not for the web of international agreements? Americans have no problem backstabbing each other, but let a piece of paper be signed with some potentate across the sea, there's no going back....
I think we should be talking to the Chinese. I'll bet they would be interested in signing some sort of agreement to create a major joint project with the USA and Canada and Russia and EU and Japan and everyone else! But I wonder what that project would be... 
I know!
Oh, and Robotbeat, you might not get those large space race budgets this time around. Despite your hopes for the competition being friendly, feeding the fires of nationalism could get an out of control blazing inferno. You might even get drafted. You might witness a boom and bust space program that leaves humans going nowhere but LEO for forty years. And then, if humans aren't going to an asteroid and Mars and beyond, why not wait forty or fifty years and let the robots get smarter before we send them beyond LEO. And why are we humans even doing LEO? BTDT. Maybe we should just shut that down too!
I like Warren's ideas much better.
And remember folks,
"Asteroid Next" missions: Proving Grounds for future crewed Mars missions is a whole lot more riskier than the "Moon Next". And needed human spaceflight capabilities and experience in cislunar space and on the Moon is what Congress is funding and also the current legal responsibility of NASA.
Public Law 111–267
111th Congress
An Act
To authorize the programs of the National Aeronautics and Space Administration
for fiscal years 2011 through 2013, and for other purposes.
At:http://www.nasa.gov/pdf/649377main_PL_111-267.pdf
....
"TITLE III—EXPANSION OF HUMAN
SPACE FLIGHT BEYOND THE INTERNATIONAL
SPACE STATION AND LOW EARTH
ORBIT
SEC. 301. HUMAN SPACE FLIGHT BEYOND LOW-EARTH ORBIT.
(a) FINDINGS
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Cheers!